Beijing Youjian

A Perspective (old post)

Last night, Shanshan had a very bad case of la duza, resulting in frequent trips to the bathroom. At about 11 pm, we decided it was time to head to the hospital. We were not only concerned about la duza, but how it might affect our soon-to-be baby.

So, we went out side, caught a cab to InternationalSOS, and got Shanshan checked-in. She was the only patient there when we arrived.

(Her parents met us there since they were concerned and the hospital is a short drive from their home.)

She was quickly given a private ward which had it’s own bathroom (promptly used).

After a nurse took her vitals, the doctor saw her and confirmed that it was, indeed, a bad case of la duza. She was given some packs of saline crystals to mix with water and taken five times a day, some medication to help make things a bit more solid, and was sent home.

All in all, our stay at the hospital was right around an hour, and cost well within my daily insurance limit for outpatient services.



Roses (old post)

In the last year or so, this street outside my apartment complex has received a total upgrade… new asphalt on the roadway, new pavers on the sidewalk, new concrete wall and iron fencing, new trees(!), and, just recently, roses.


Changes in Time and Space (old post)

One month into my 50th year. Chong Chong a few days into his sixth month. A time, perhaps, to look back.

Shanshan and I don’t have a huge apartment. Three bedrooms and two bathrooms.

When we brought Chong Chong home from the hospital, our Yue Sao moved in with as well, and would stay with us pretty much nonstop for the next three months. Mom and dad were over during the day, but would go home just before dinner.

Since then, it has been mom staying with us from Sunday afternoon through Friday night, and dad with us from the morning until after dinner each of these days. We also have an Ayi that is with us five days a week for roughly four hours a day to clean and help with the cooking.


Dispatches from the Hives

Okie and I went to another of hive location last week. This one is at Presentation Center, where honey is on display and can be purchased.

It is a smaller installation than that we visited the week before, but still darn pretty.

Since we were going to be opening-up the hives, instead of just adding modules, Okie fired up the smoker, and doused each hive before cracking them open.

Here is the activity on the inside of a lid.

There is a symbiotic relationship between the keeper and the hive. If the hive doesn’t thrive — and the queen isn’t protected — it doesn’t produce honey.

Okie only takes honey from the top module , leaving the rest to the hive. To ensure that the queen doesn’t get into the top module, a metal grating is put between it and the second module.

Here is a closer look at the activity:

This is a slate from the second module of a hive.

Considering that we were opening up their homes and pulling slates out, the bees were quite docile. There were definitely some protestors, but they mostly went around their business.

I did get stung on my right hand. First time since early childhood. Had some redness but no swelling. Typical “puss-pocket” for what was left of the stinger later. Felt relieved to get this out of the way.

This is one of the buildings at the retreat.

The Last Six Months

Some of the milestones from the last six months. Flights are in orange. Sidlaw refers to our home in San Jose.

  • 2015-12-11 18 Hui Xin Xi Jie, Apt E901 Beijing listed for sale (Homelink)
  • 2016-12-27 Contract signed for sale of Apt E901
  • 2016-01-08 Last official day at Oracle
  • 2016-01-08 UA 889 E5T2H2 PEK → SFO Shanshan, Robs
  • 2016-01-11 First day at Nexenta
  • 2016-01-23 UA 888 E5T2H2 SFO → PEK Shanshan, Robs
  • 2016-02-22 Five year wedding anniversary
  • 2016-02-24 Official transfer of Apt E901 starts (five years of ownership reached)
  • 2016-02-29 UA 889 HBZHJK PEK → SFO Robs
    • Robs moved into  Pomeroy, Apt #4. (Met by Emey at SFO)
  • 2016-03-12 UA 273 DMG62W SFO → SEA Robs
    • Picked-up train set in Seattle. Visited Dave & Anna in Portland
    • Spent the night in Ashland
    • Visited Betty, Jim, Steve, and Dianne on the following day
  • 2016-03-17 Ownership transferred to new owner of Apt E901
  • 2016-03-19 UA 888 IVTVB5 SFO → PEK Robs
  • 2016-03-30 UA 889 ITJ1X4 PEK → SFO Shanshan, Chong Chong, Robs
  • 2016-04-01 Chong Chong started attending Yvonne’s Daycare
  • 2016-04-05 Bought Audi allroad
  • 2016-04-12 Made offer on Sidlaw (offer accepted)
  • 2016-05-07 Put down-payment on Escalade
  • 2016-05-21 Attended memorial for Jim (with Stacy)
  • 2016-05-23 Final walk-through of Sidlaw
  • 2016-05-24 Signed closing papers
  • 2016-05-25 House closed
  • 2016-05-26 Recorded / Approved for car loan
  • 2016-05-30 DL 7435 HZPC2R SJC → PIH Robs
    • Pocatello, Idaho to pick-up Escalade
  • 2016-05-31 Arrived at apartment, packed, first night at Sidlaw
  • 2016-06-01 Chong Chong’s first day of school, continued clean-up of apartment
  • 2016-06-02 Finished cleanup of apartment
  • 2016-06-03 Container arrived from Beijing


I’d been with Sun/Oracle for over twenty years. More than that if you count the year I spent as a contractor, and the summer before that as an intern. I had three distinct concentrations during that period; technical writer, quality assurance, and quality engineering. QE was the longest job I’ve ever had… well over ten years.

But, this post isn’t so much about my work history as it is about transitions that I’ve been through. There have been major ones… from joining the Coast Guard and moving to New York, leaving the Coast Guard, leaving New York, getting married, getting divorced, shutting down my life in the US, building it up again here in Beijing, getting married again, having Chong Chong, and into the various milestones associated with leaving my job at Oracle… last day in the office, last day of work, last day of employment.

Most of the transitions I’ve been through have been painful. Or, I’ve gone through them somewhat dazed. Physically there, but part of mind stuck in a what-the-fuck-is-happening-to-me mode.

This time, it is much different. I’m now in a period, which started in January, and will probably go through August, that is chockablock full of transitions. And, they are transitions that are going well. Although things haven’t gone exactly to plan, I’m finding that, well, we’re getting what we need.

Right now, I am laying in my bed after eating dinner prepared by our Ayi, me having just tumbled around with Chong Chong, who is now with Shanshan in the living room calling me (Ba Ba! Chong Chong! I respond. Ba Ba! He yells, and so we go), as fireworks and firecrackers continue to go off during the 15 days of Spring Festival that currently engulfs the country.

By August, if all goes well, Shanshan, Chong Chong, Leo (our dog), and Xiao Mao (our cat) will be living in a house in the San Jose area.

On Wednesday, part of the transition occurs with movers packing-up the things that we’ll be taking to the US and putting them into storage. On the Monday after that, I’ll head back to Santa Clara to work for a month before coming back to move the rest of the family there.

I’ll keep the blog updated as the transitions continue.